Thoroughly Living For Today

With the previous post out of the way addressing stupidity, let me take this time to wish my followers a very prosperous and Happy New Year! God already has a plan for each one of us, we just have to ( like Tyrese says)'get out of our own way'.

So many wonderful things have happened in my life since I've last blog in June of last year. I have my second Masters in Business and am now working on my Masters in Education. Time doesn't allow for ignorance, not in my world, not on my watch. LOL

My two oldest kids are graduating college this year, my 9 year old, Tamyr is doing exceptionally well in school as well as, my 7 year old Winter. They are both very much animated and outspoken, which is something I've always encouraged in my children. You are a voice in this world and deserve to be heard. I teach them about being positive and treat others like they want to be treated, but not to a fault. If someone is bringing unnecessary drama to your life, give it back. But most importantly, do it in such a way that you still have your dignity and the other person feels so 'little' without you having ever used profanity or resorted to putting your hands on them.

I am also happy with my friends and extended family. I love my co-workers and simply adore my students!! The summer of 2012 will see me making MAJOR moves in my life....physically, emotionally, professionally, and daringly. There are parts of my life that have been less than favorable, but that's the thing about life....if you live it long enough,you will encounter many 'oops'! I'm happy for EVERYTHING that life has thrown at me, and look forward to the rest of my journey.

I'm living my life for today and haven't any regrets or apologies for anything that I have done to ensure my happiness. It is what it is. I don't blame anyone for anything that has transpired in my life. I'm not a fool and know that one person can't make another person do anything they DONT already want to do or have done before you came along. Nothing new. I'm not sitting around complaining, biting my damn nails, blogging, crying, pouting about a damn thing. I would miss out on so much by holding a pity party in which I am the only damn guest!!

Everybody has problems, issues, and things going on in their lives and honestly adding your bullshit to the list of their worries only makes matters worse. I will continue to do what it takes to make me happy; whatever it is. And honestly, I don't give a fuck about how someone feels about it. If if was meant for you, you would have gotten it, it would have worked out for you, or came to you. Duh!! I love me. I love my children. I fear God and tread very lightly when it comes to fake people. I have an discern spirit when it comes to people trying to get over, I smell bitchassness from a damn mile away.

Anyway, thanks for reading. Until next time, which for right now, God knows when that'll be....Smooches!!!

Mocha

Moving On...NEXT!!

Let me just be brief. This is a new year....2012; not 2001 or the years in between up until now. What happened in the damn past needs to STAY in the damn past. I will not oblige any bitterness to intrude on my happiness. It's over and done with and so a whole other DECADE ago. There can't be much happiness in your life if you're constantly dwelling on the past. When you have trash in your house, you throw it out, never to bring it back inside,right? Now, do the same with bullshit,fake forgiveness and lost loves....MOVE ON!! Whining about what may have been is a sad attempt to convince others that you are the 'bigger' person. Silence is golden...use it!! Happy New Year and New Life. 2012 has many amazing, wonderful possibilites for me and mine and I'm getting as much of it as I can, without interruptions. With that said, I WILL NOT address bitchassness in the New Year, afterall, 'we' know the 'real' truth.

Smooches
Mocha